That attitude is capable of killing a woman's sex drive and plunge her to a new low and the man comes to her and she knows that she won't get any satisfaction and why should she continue with a man who practically rapes her?
The men needs to be educated on this subject and make sex enjoyable and the woman will ask for it. But if all she gets is 5 minutes of your penis ramming into her vagina and off you go,Then there's little chance of her jumping into your bed when you call.
Women are human beings with sexual feelings, They need to be touched, caressed, Spend more time and get her where she needs to be and there will be no struggle. I haven't seen or heard of any woman that hates sex, All i hear and see are women with men that cares more about ejaculating than satisfying a woman. I don't have to wind my wife up for sex, Everyone loves it because it is a collective enjoyment. But when the man enjoys alone, Then you are putting the woman off sex by that singular action. Many women don't reach orgasm just because the man haven't got a clue.
Written by: Chris Nwabueze Ndu
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I was thinking you wrote this... This is so true. Sex is not something that should be done in a hurry, as a matter of fact, I think a great night of sex starts in the day, the build up, the calls, the tease, the gift, and so on..Then you may have little or no effort in putting her in the mood... The effect of intense foreplay before penetration can not be over emphasized... Thank you Mr Chris, its quite educating and revealing.....
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Its the fault of the woman too........she should use a method called help me to help you
ReplyDeleteThats too bad.......there need ti be caressing and foreplay before penatration, even as well as blowjob because if you are making love to your wife and she never enjoy sex to the point of ecstasy, there are chances that she will look out side.......so in a case like this the woman should help by sitting the husband down and talk about their sex life just as they talk about every other family matter..........you never can tell he may not even know that the wife is not enjoying it self.
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