ORAL SEX: the Pornography Industry is holding our minds in bondage— By Chijioke Malachi Anyacho

Once I attended a sex and single seminar, during the Questions and Answers session, an anonymous question was read "sir, is it wrong for Christian couples to engage in oral sex?", the hall became rowdy, how dare you........talk...about this taboo? 
It took the guest speaker, a pastor, few minutes to calm the murmuring crowd, then he answered, "I can't say if its bad or not, anything that pleases the man and his wife, they should do"
Hmmmmm...ANYTHING????? Sir, re you serious? Including Fetishism(I wanted to ask him).

Another time, I heard a pastor shouting.. "how can you be sucking somebody's private part with the same mouth you are using to praise and worship God? It's a sin"....i like how one pastor puts it " how will you be doing Sucking-sucking(sucko-sucko in Nigerian parlance).
Note: do not rush to comment if you didn't read this through.
Browsing through one of the Art History books in my departmental library, I saw a picture of a rock
engravings showing different ancient godlike figures engaged in Oral sex and beneath the picture reads, oldest drawings of Oral sex like this were found in shrines, suggesting oral sex must have been a ritual in ancient mythology. Also, sculptures depicting the act of oral sex were found in shrines dedicated to sex gods/goddess.
Through the ages, it has remained a spiritual ritual.
Then came PORNOGRAPHY...
How PORNOGRAPHY changed everything.
My story: I grew up when porn was popularly called 'Blue film'(I still don't know why the name...but it think its better than the word "Porn")...i grew up when adults will send children out of the parlour (televisions used to be in the parlours only...cause it was only one the family could afford) when they want to watch "blue film" and some notoriously curious kids like me will try to peep through any hole to see what is that almighty film that children must not watch...i grew up knowing that sex is when a man inserts what's between his legs into what's between the ladies leg.
As I became a teenager, my image of sex was a man lying on top a woman(that reminds me, dear Lord, please forgive me and everyone that has used the word "missionary position" to describe a man lying on top a woman, how could someone be so disrespectful to the missionaries).
Until I started watching porn in my final years in secondary school, it never crossed my mind that the penis and vagina is to be sucked/licked. As far as I was consigned, the mouth has no business down there... For what na?
In my naiveness, it didn't occur to me that pornography is an overly exaggerated acting by paid actors and actress designed to distort our own sexual orientation and reality as much as possible. I was drawn by the way the porn stars responded during oral sex. Their moaning like sweet melodies of an orchestra won my heart. Soon, it became my desire. Its imagery filled my imaginations.
Every part of me long for it, without it, sex became plastic.
One faithful day, my head found its way in between my ex girlfriend's leg before i could say "Jack"(details not available).
Islam and the Church are bent on conforming to the desires of followers in any attempt not to lose their appeal in this sex driven generation. Both seems overwhelmed. Ironically, while Anal sex and pornography is prohibited in Islam(they are both Haram), Islam teaches that anything a couple do in their bedroom to please each other is allowed including Oral sex. "Oral sex is not prohibited, but it is not the normal choice for committed Muslims and Muslimahs. That's, despite that oral sex is not Haram, it is completely disgusting and does not conform to the pure taste and decency of a Muslim personality"- Islam Awareness.

The Church teaches something similar.
Both religion, failed to understand that a couple are two different and distinct individuals and both carries the sexual orientation, habits and fantasies they acquired as singles into marriage.
Encouraging Oral sex is nothing short of encouraging Pornography. If you forbid pornography(even for couples) by extension, you forbid Oral sex. Why? Because, pornography sold the idea of Oral sex to the world. It planted the desire of having our sex organs sucked in our minds and imaginations.
Just a few things to ponder on:
Prior to the revolution of the Pornography industry, was Oral sex on the menu of Christian/Islam/Religious couples?
Where did you acquire the idea of Oral sex from?
Talk to people that haven't watched or are not addicted to porn, how did they find the idea of sucking people's private parts??
N:B, some people were introduced to Oral sex by their partner who has been influenced by the Pornography industry. They talked you into doing it, so you too was influenced by the porn industry indirectly.
Before you started watching porn, did the Idea of sucking your partners penis or vagina a part of your sexual orientation? Did it ever cross your mind? How did you find the thought when someone first told you about it?
how much do you know of Oral sex origin as a ritual practice?
Oral sex is solely a franchise of the Porn Industry. They made it mainstream. The people and forces behind the Porn industry understands how the human mind works and they have taken advantage of it. Same way they have been able to make lesbianism pleasurable and exciting to both men and women viewers, they have also succeeded in making Oral sex pleasurable and desirable in our eyes(how many guys that watches porn has a problem with lesbians making love?? Lesbian sex porn is even more erotic)
Like Oral sex, it was the porn industry that sowed the seeds of anal sex and sex toys in our hearts. Its harvest is now manifesting in our desires.
Now we are slave to the Porn Industry.