Disagreement/misunderstanding shouldn't mean malice

First thing you should know is that people will not always agree with you at all times, people will not talk to you the way you like at all times. There will come a time when someone will have to strongly disagree with you, shout at you and even talk to you in a manner you don't like... Nobody is programmed to do your bidding at all times. This is why there is bound to be misunderstanding between friends, couples, colleagues, etc.

If you can understand this, then you ought to know that the fact you have misunderstanding, disagreement, fight, etc with someone doesn't mean you have to automatically start keeping malice... There is a general saying "We disagree to agree".



Its so funny how people (especially on facebook) will start beefing you just because you disagreed with them or probably because you addressed them in a manner they don't like. I believe as a mature person, you are old enough to simply tell someone that you don't like the way he/she addressed you, the person will take correction and the friendship continues. Some will go to the extent of blocking you because you disagreed with them lol.

let me reveal one thing to you, anyone (especially an assumed close friend) who agrees virtually to all what you say is nothing but a sycophant, most of them go behind your back to disagree.

Even if you are your own friend, believe me, you will disagree and fight with yourself sometimes. Haven't you ever said something today, only to realise tomorrow that you were wrong yesterday? If you can't keep malice with yourself in such situation, why keep malice with a friend who disagrees with you?


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