Men who don't pay bills - Kelechi Deca

Tellingly, we now have a preponderance of men who can't
pay bills in this era than in any other period in history of mankind. A lot is responsible for this. From the rise and rise of the number of women with skills to compete with men in
the Labour market, to the high rate of unemployment which is hitting men the most.

However, there exist a fringe of "fine boys" who simply want to be bottlefed all their lives. This group are doing the most damages in marriages, and unfortunately, the unpalatable stories we hear everyday will never be enough warning to stop the next successful girl from going to the "pet market"

to buy herself another gum chewing, feeding bottle sucking fine boy in the name of husband. Yet tomorrow she will bring her sorrows for us to share on social media.

It is unnatural for a man not to provide for his household (even the Bible says such men are worse than infidels).

However, most of them in this position loathe their status and are doing everything to reverse it. I pray they find the opportunities. ....

There are very few examples in the animal kingdom to explain away this phenomenon. The Lion who hardly hunts for food but rely on the Lioness in his Pride for food do join
in hunting especially when a bigger, more dangerous prey like the Buffalo or Giraffes are encountered. Aside that, it provides protection and help nurture the cubs.

Igbo people say that if a man does not have money, he should at least have good character. Our elders also say that if a woman is barren,she should at least be healthy and
beautiful.

If you are not putting food on the table,not picking the bills, the least you can do is to be a responsible father and husband. Help get the kids ready for school, do school
runs, attend Open Days, and monitor your kids academics closely as you have the time. Ensure the home front run smoothly, all these will not stop you from having erections
and being a man. It even open your eyes to a lot of things and bring you closer to your spouse and kids.

It is not true that women became "uncontrollable" as soon as they become successful. When you want your woman to be the father and mother at the same time,without you lifting a finger to help even in the most mundane things like taking
her car to the mechanic, buying fuel for the generator, helping the kids with homework; you inadvertently sold your right at the head of the home. It is natural.
I ga abu ogbenye buru amusu?
It is double tragedy for anyone to be poor and also be a witch at the same time.

If you can't pay bills,please do not mismanage the little your wife is bringing home,be an odozi aku instead.

You cannot not pay bills and still want to be wasteful........
No....it is unacceptable.....
If you care so much about your ego, lift a finger and be productive. ...."