It takes a certain degree of hatred to choose Mrs title over the welfare of your own child(ren).

When Monalisa Chinda ran from an abusive marriage, some of you that are forming voltron on top of Ronke Shonde's matter, said she should have stayed.

That's what a "true African woman" does.

She should have prayed harder.
She should have been patient.
For the sake of her daughter. Yada yada yada.

Some of you blasted Tiwa Savage, just last week,You said she should have continued to cover and enable the sh*t of the bozo she married. She should have considered her son.

If you're in an abusive situation, sit there. Allow the opinions of useless women make you stay put. 

Pray hard, oh! We will retweet and blog your matter, like we're doing Ronke's own.

I've just read that she & her husband were serious church "pipul" and her pastor told her to "not let the devil" win in her marriage.

Since you don't have sense.
This one has left the children. Scarred the children for life - her husband locked her crying children in the room, with her corpse. Then, he absconded.

Even IF he is found, what will happen?

- his family will surface and beg her family to "leave it for god"

- social media commentators will tell us that two wrongs don't make a right

- a women's rights group will kick up enough fuss, so despite all the begging, he will be arrested and charged

- it will take at least two years for the case to reach court

- he will offer the kind of defence that makes Criminal Law lecturers amazed (something like "she stabbed herself 76X)

- his family will say Ronke was a difficult person to live with

- he will be found guilty and sentenced to death

- a "human rights group" will spring up from nowhere to make noise & attempt to seek publicity

- his lawyer will plead for leniency, "because he is so remorseful, that he is now suicidal"

- he will say "his enemies" are after him and have framed him

- pastors will beg on his behalf and say that "nobody is perfect"

- people will ask who will take care of the children, if he is killed

- another group will argue that it makes no sense for a killer to be raising the children of his victim

- people will e-fight and unfriend themselves

- bloggers will make money, as traffic flows to their platforms

- churches will organise seminars and workshops on "how to bind and cast the devil making your husband beat you"

- there will be some conferences on "how to appear even more submissive than your illiterate grandmother"

- the children will be looking haggard and would have stopped attending school

In the mean time, at least 50 more Nigerian women would have died - because their sense of worth is embedded in the Mrs title.

We won't hear about all of them, because their horse-bands will tell the world that the women died after brief illnesses or freak accidents. The "grieving widowers" will remarry.

These women will die because of their selfishness. Because they've extended their self-hatred to their innocent children.

Call me unsympathetic, but it takes a certain degree of hatred to choose Mrs title over the welfare of your own child(ren).

Some are reading this and saying, "I sarrrrrve a maciful gaaaaad. And he will not let me die."

You. Are. An. Idiot.

Culled from Chioma Nnani Facebook wall

Late Mrs Ronke