My Story

I married a Yoruba man, I'm an igbo lady from Imo state. My mother was late before I got married, my dad and elder brothers rejected my husband, to the extent they disowned me. My uncle was the one that accepted my bride price so I won't be shamed.

After I have lived with my husband for years and had kids for him, my dad died without even seeing my
kids, my hubby was the one that sponsored the whole event behind my back. My siblings never told me but they always communicate with my husband. My husband Sponsored two of my younger brothers abroad behind my back too Without letting me know.


Recently, my younger sister lost her husband and was sent out of her house, she came straight to my house with her two kids, I have not seen her since I married. She also communicates with my husband behind my back too.

Now I want to send her packing, I can't believe they can come back to the same man they rejected all these while for help. My husband wants to help her get an apartment, am so mad at him, how could he forgive them so easily like this when I can't even stand my family members?

I want her to leave but my husband is preaching forgiveness after all, we are still married and the joke is on them.
I still can't bring myself to forgive them and I want her out of my house. the more I see her, the more hatred I have for her.

Please house what can I do? The whole thing is frustrating me, and for the first time in my marriage am having quarrel with my husband. We no longer sleep in same room, this issue is tearing us apart.